My To Do List
So, I seriously have to admit that I am a complete and total PROCRASTINATOR!!
Like, no joke. I have been engaged for almost two years, and I am just NOW planning my wedding... I think it's because I thought that I had all the time in the world, but now that my world is coming to reality, I am seeing that I needed to get my planning done LONG before now.
What I am finding out, is that a lot of people (especially those who are in the wedding party) will tell me that this is my wedding, and that if I choose something that someone happens to not like, that they should just deal with it, or not be apart of the wedding. Well.. those same people are usually the ones that start to complain, or tell me what I should or shouldn't do.
For Robert and I's wedding, I wanted to be fair to the others that wanted to stand by me in choosing their dresses, and even who they were going to walk down the aisle with, but as I started to realize, a lot of them didn't communicate with me. Then when they did, it was always a complaint. Either the dress was the wrong color, or the dress was the wrong length, or the person they were walking down the aisle with, was not who they wanted to walk down with. But you know what? I can change the whole dress situation, but for the people who are in my wedding party, they can only walk down with who is available.
I have also been told who I should or shouldn't have help me plan my wedding. I don't want to say anything to them, because they are important to me and I care about what they have to say. But really? I am having to plan this with little to no help, and you are telling me who I can or can't have help me? Bish, you need to check yourself.
This is my TO DO list, people who are on it will NOT change unless the decision is made by myself or my fiance. If things in this list DOES decide to change, it is because of my choice, not someone elses.
Maid of Honors:
Katrina C.
Sarah E.
Bridesmaids:
Kayla F.
Tempest L.
Ieshia F.
Best Men:
Jacob A.
Anthony H.
Groomsmen:
Theron J.
Joel R.
Evan S.
Maid of Honor/Bridesmaid dress color:
Burgundy
Their Flowers:
MOH: Lighter pink w/burgundy
BM: Med. pink/purple w/burgundy
Best Men/Groomsmen attire color:
Burgundy (Tie and Socks) and Black (Pants, Suspenders, and Shoes)
Their Flower:
BM: Lighter Pink
GM: Burgundy
Flower Girls:
Sophia L.
Angel H.
Miniature Ushers:
Erine H.
Brandon R.
Hair & Make-up:
Ourselves (With help from Tutorial Videos)
Invatations/RSVPs/T.Y Cards:
Courtney S. / Myself
Florist:
Carol A. (My mom!)
Photographer:
Sarah E. [This Might Change]
Videographer:
N/A
Location for Wedding Ceremony:
N/A
Location for Reception:
Blow Dell - still have to $ them to book it*
[THIS WILL BE A BBQ/POTLUCK! EVERYONE NEEDS TO BRING SOMETHING TO THE RECEPTION, ALL FOOD AND WHO IS BRINGING WILL BE POSTED!]
DATE:
June 8th, 2013
TIME:
2:00pm*
Location of Honeymoon:
N/A
Budget:
$1,500
[*] means that I have added this to the list, if I forget/forgot anything, please comment below!
LINKS:
MoH/Bridesmaids dresses:
http://www.target.com/p/women-s-ring-neck-sateen-dress-assorted-colors/-/A-13809480#?lnk=sc_qi_detaillink
MoH/Bridesmaids Shoes:
[THESE ARE THE CHOICES THAT THEY ARE DECIDING FROM!!]
http://www.target.com/p/women-s-de-blossom-kay-glitter-wedge-assorted-colors/-/A-14093534#prodSlot=medium_1_1
http://www.target.com/p/women-s-tallulah-blue-sophia-wedge-leopard/-/A-14153313#prodSlot=medium_1_2
Bride's Dress:
[STILL HAVE TO CHOOSE]
Bride's Shoes:
http://www.payless.com/store/product/detail.jsp?catId=cat10088&subCatId=cat10284&skuId=128737050&productId=72684&lotId=128737&category=&catdisplayName=Womens
Groom's Attire:
[STILL HAVE TO GET]
B.M/Groomsmen Attire:
[STILL HAVE TO GET]
Father of the Bride's Attire:
[STILL HAVE TO GET]
Flower Girls Attire:
[NEED TO GET PICTURE]
Ring Bearers Attire/Miniature Usher Attire:
[STILL HAVE TO GET]
